Jul 16, 2010

"Oh, so you eloped?"

Whenever people find out that my husband and I went to Vegas to get married I'm always asked the following: "Oh, so you eloped?"

Getting asked this question is the sure fire way to get under my skin. Every time I hear it I think to myself, I'm no dictionary.com, but doesn't elope mean to secretly run off and get married. You know, like engaged and underage style.

"No, we just went to Vegas. It was actually planned." I respond, always with a lingering hint of attitude and annoyance in my tone.

Something so simple shouldn't be the source of so much frustration but it definitely is. I think there's a gross misconception that if you go to Vegas it equals quickie, shot gun style wedding... or brings up the image of a bun already in the oven or the result of a wild night with too much liquor.

The truth of the matter is when my husband and I decided to go to Vegas it was the easiest place to get married. They have a bazillion (yes that's a word) places that will welcome you into wedded bliss 24/7, it's affordable and well, Vegas is a pretty fun city!

As we waited in line to get our marriage license it was nothing like I imagined. No crazy, drunk, random folks... just googly eyed couples excited to sign their single lives away and make the leap into forever. I would actually recommend people go to Vegas and get married. It was an amazing experience.

On a side note, I wanted to make sure I wasn't losing my mind so I looked up the definition of "elope" - - a friendly way to educate the blog world on the real meaning (because it doesn't mean "vegas" lol):

–verb (used without object), e·loped, e·lop·ing.

to run off secretly to be married, without the consent or knowledge of one's parents.
2. to run away with a lover.
3. to leave without permission or notification; escape.


Ladybug said...

my dad and step mom got married in vegas. i think it was just 1 or 2 people there with them. it looked like a very nice ceremony from the pictures.

i'd like to wish you 2 love birds an early happy 6 month anniversary! :)

South Loop Social Light said...

Thanks girl! Yeah, it was just the 2 of us... the minister and the witness. Perfect!

Anonymous said...

That does sound like fun. I'll keep that in mind if I get married again.



Taneica said...

I got married back in August. It was a beautiful and small ceremony of about 50 guests. To be honest, by the day of, I wished I WOULD HAVE ELOPED!!! My mom drove me NUTS! lol Vegas would have been a wonderful alternative. Perhaps to renew our vows. I loveyour blog and your hair :-) Keep up the good work!

South Loop Social Light said...

@ Taneica - I'm my mother's only daughter so she was a bit... what's the word, affected by my decision to go to Vegas. She dreamed of throwing this lavish over the top wedding but that's not my husband and I wanted. She respected our wishes and jumped on board with things, but now she's pushing for a grandchild lol. She's determined to celebrate.

We DO plan on having a vow renewal in the future... maybe our 5th wedding anniversary. We want to do a destination something or another.

Thanks for reading :)

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