Most people know Necole Bitchie, the gossip blogger, but I'm actually a huge fan of her personal blog, I Am Necole. She recently posted this video from the BET Experience with couples Salim & Mara Brock Akil, and Boris Kodjoe and Nicole Ari Parker.
This video is such a refreshing, candid discussion on relationships... and not just dating, but long term relationships. Salim and Mara Brock Akil have been married for 14 years with 2 kids, while Boris and Nicole have been married for 8 years and also have 2 kids.
Even if you don't have time to watch the video, I'd suggest playing it in the background while you work. Too often couples, especially in Hollywood, aren't honest or transparent about the real things that happen in relationships... even in our everyday friendships, we can put up some high walls and not have candid discussions.
I think this dialogue is awesome!